How to make anal sex less painful
Cindy from Fairfield Age: 31. In sex love all except pain. Love and gentle sex and rough in the mood.
Instead of just diving right into anal sex, do some prepping first with what's called anal foreplay. Want more of Bustle's Sex and Relationships coverage. I didn't hate it, and it was psychologically gratifying to watch my partner's mind being blown. Have your partner finger your butt first with one finger, then two or three.
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How Can I Make Anal Sex Hurt Less
Another really common cause is a hemorrhoid yup, we're talkin' hemorrhoids, folks you didn't know about. Unless I guess the guy's shaft is the same width as his head, in which case are you guys gonna break up when he has to go back to Xavier's Academy for Gifted Youngsters. But, like snowflakes, no two anal tears are the same, so yours may bleed a bit. This is actually a technique that women in porn use pre-anal scenes just to be on the safe side.
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So maybe don't do that, or start with a bit of that but then switch, because it'll take really long for your partner to come, if they even can. But like any other sex act, if things start to hurt in a way that's no longer fun, you should stop. You might have heard that too much lube takes away the friction that makes it feel good for the dude. But, like snowflakes, no two anal tears are the same, so yours may bleed a bit. Try out anal play first. Relaxing and constricting the pubococcygeus PC muscles is like the anal version of doing Kegels. Some, well, let's call them new sensations are to be expected—a lot of women say it feels like they need to poop, or like a primal, pressure feeling.
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